Before I start sharing anymore of my story, I first want to get a few common misconceptions about me out of the way and the first thing I wanna say is I’m not a guru.
Now that I’ve gotten that one out of the way, let’s get into this post!
There are a few misconceptions people have about me as a blogger, but a few that I have heard the most include:
- She only thinks type 4 hair is pretty, but there are other hair types that are beautiful
- She’s famous!
- Aria must have her “hair degree”.
- Of course she’s gonna recommend that product, she’s trying to take your money.
- I wonder what she’s like in real life.
- She always gives the best advice!
As flattered as I am, I can’t shine in artificial sunlight. In other words, I don’t like being misunderstood (frustrating, right?!) and although some of these misconceptions are flattering, I feel the need to clear the air and set things straight.
I Believe All Hair Is Beautiful
Even though my blog is geared for those of us who have type 4 hair, I’m not saying that no other hair types are worthy of my time.
It’s easy to come across as a “hair snob” when your content only focuses on one hair type, but the truth of the matter is, type 4 hair is something I’m passionate about (and am still trying to figure out) because that’s what grows from my scalp and it’s something personal to me and it’s the hair I have the most experience with.
I’m Simply A Normal Person
I don’t want you coming to my website and viewing my hair journey as the magical answer to all of your hair problems. My content here at Fantastic 4 Kinks comes from my own experiences as a regular person going through my own hair journey.
Please keep in mind that while you may get new ideas from my regimen and product experiences, it’s not my intention to make you feel like the only things that will work for your hair are going to be the things that work for mine.
I Have No Professional Training
I didn’t attend college to learn about hair, I’ve simply spent years learning about my own hair. So, I hope you don’t think I know a single thing about your hair, but I do know a lot about my hair and I still can’t say I’m an “expert” in that department either.
I’m Not Here To Sell
If you check out my affiliate disclosure, you’ll see that my site does contain links to the products I mention throughout my content and if you should choose to purchase something using my links here at Fantastic 4 Kinks, I will be compensated. You can read my full disclosure by clicking here.
HOWEVER, I’m not putting those links there strictly to sell you a pretty product wrapped in false promises.
The products I review and mention are things I’ve tried that have worked for me (unless it’s a negative review… yes, I have those, too).
Would I love to quit my job and blog full-time from home? Of course I would, however, I have a full-time job in the “real world” because the focus of my site is to share my experiences and help others in the areas of their natural hair journey where I struggled.
What You See Is What You Get
I’ve always been a laid back kind of gal and I’m sure you’ll get the sense that when it comes to my content, this is no exception. I believe in being myself and that’s probably never going to change (unless the zombie apocalypse happens, then I may very well pick up a sword and become violent).
I have no reason to lie about my natural hair journey or my experiences because at the end of the day, I don’t want you to be mad at me for feeding you a bunch of crap.
It’s so much easier to keep things real. Can’t a girl just be herself?
All of my reviews and opinions are honest and are in no way altered by promises of payment from any company. I strongly frown upon that.
Anyone who sponsors me is open to the same treatment as unsponsored posts, which means the good and the bad are always mentioned for any products I review and share with you (unless I can’t find anything negative to say because those kinds of products do exist).
I’m Not Perfect
Even though I do my best to be as accurate as possible with the information here at Fantastic 4 Kinks, considering the fact that I’m no guru, it should come as no surprise to you that sometimes I’m going to be wrong. As a matter of fact, I’m sure as you continue to read through my posts that you’ll even notice typos and misspelled words.
Please don’t expect perfection because you’ll just end up being very disappointed.
Keep in mind that I’m just a normal person without formal training on this topic and that the things I know are simply the things I know about MY hair and should not necessarily be taken as a suggestion to follow my routine or product recommendations precisely.
Your hair routine should fit your lifestyle and the products you choose ultimately come down to how well you get to know your own hair and adjust your hair care practices to fit your hair’s needs.
We all make mistakes, bloggers are people too!
Why I’m Not A Guru
Even though I’m passionate about natural hair care, I’m not a guru because I’m not claiming to be able to solve your hair problems directly. What I MAY be able to do inspire you to try something new that may (or may not) work for you and your hair goals.
I hardly think I can call myself a guru if the only thing I can offer you is my opinion based on what I’ve experienced with my hair journey. Wouldn’t you agree?
I’d like you to keep in mind as you continue to check out my content (hopefully) that I’m in no position to tell you what you should or shouldn’t do with your hair.
At the end of the day, it’s up to you to choose what’s best for your type 4 kinks, even if it goes against what’s common in the natural hair community.
So, now that I’ve cleared the air about why I’m not a guru, let’s move forward together on this crazy (yet wonderful) natural journey!
Here’s To Your Fantastic 4 Kinks!